Doing everything “right” but not achieving your goals? This will help.

When I personally realised this – it made all the difference in my own manifesting goals. Now, this doesn’t mean that things are going to magically appear on your countertop (but, then again – don’t discount that possibility!) if you just pretend you’re positive.  

You must practice stacking the positive in your favour. Tease out every bit of gratitude you can for what you do have. Tip the scale in your favour. What you’re doing then is getting onto the right channel so you can finally listen to the song you’re looking for. You cannot listen to a classical piece of music if you’re tuned into the rock & roll station. It might feel awkward at first, to be grateful for things you already have, but when you start to change your perspective and shift your focus – it’s incredible how quickly your goals find you!

Now for those who follow my teachings, you know that I’m a 100% “honour all your feelings” type of mentor.  I want to take a moment to say that we all have bad days and have to deal with difficult situations. But we do not have to stay there for longer than necessary.  Especially because happiness, success, fulfilment and joy do not reside in the same place that frustration, pity, martyrdom, and despair do.

Do not disrespect negative feelings when they arise. Honour them, but then let them go, when it’s the right time to, because you know (deep down already) those emotions won’t get you to where you want to go.